to activate a control in IE after the automatic mechinism (or before) was disabled due to the lawsuit place a script tag in the HTML as follows
<script src="control.js"></script>
then create a control.js file in the root of the website like this:
(you'll of course have to edit the script for the classid of your control and it's parms - but you get the idea)
document.write('<OBJECT align=left classid="CLSID:8BD21D30-EC42-11CE-9E0D-00AA006002F3" id=Customer style="HEIGHT: 23px; text-align:left; LEFT: 0px; TOP: 100px; WIDTH: 160px" tabIndex=4 width=75 onchange="NewCustomer" VIEWASTEXT>');
document.write('<param name="VariousPropertyBits" value="746604571">');
document.write('<param name="BackColor" value="2147483653">');
document.write('<param name="ForeColor" value="2147483656">');
document.write('<param name="MaxLength" value="0">');
document.write('<param name="BorderStyle" value="0">');
document.write('<param name="ScrollBars" value="0">');
document.write('<param name="DisplayStyle" value="3">');
document.write('<param name="MousePointer" value="0">');
document.write('<param name="Size" value="4233;609">');
document.write('<param name="PasswordChar" value="0">');
document.write('<param name="ListWidth" value="0">');
document.write('<param name="BoundColumn" value="1">');
document.write('<param name="TextColumn" value="65535">');
document.write('<param name="ColumnCount" value="1">');
document.write('<param name="ListRows" value="8">');
document.write('<param name="cColumnInfo" value="0">');
document.write('<param name="MatchEntry" value="1">');
document.write('<param name="ListStyle" value="0">');
document.write('<param name="ShowDropButtonWhen" value="2">');
document.write('<param name="ShowListWhen" value="1">');
document.write('<param name="DropButtonStyle" value="1">');
document.write('<param name="MultiSelect" value="0">');
document.write('<param name="Value" value>');
document.write('<param name="Caption" value>');
document.write('<param name="PicturePosition" value="458753">');
document.write('<param name="BorderColor" value="2147483654">');
document.write('<param name="SpecialEffect" value="2">');
document.write('<param name="Accelerator" value="0">');
document.write('<param name="GroupName" value>');
document.write('<param name="FontName" value="Arial">');
document.write('<param name="FontEffects" value="1073741824">');
document.write('<param name="FontHeight" value="165">');
document.write('<param name="FontOffset" value="0">');
document.write('<param name="FontCharSet" value="0">');
document.write('<param name="FontPitchAndFamily" value="2">');
document.write('<param name="ParagraphAlign" value="1">');
document.write('<param name="FontWeight" value="400">');
document.write('<param name="autoStart" value="-1"></object>');
autoStart=-1 being the import one for getting it running automatically (once installed).
You probably want to add a CODEPATH tpo the object that points to a control.CAB file for installation too. (I didn't need this in my case)