[Full Disclosure: I work at Telerik.]
I won't make any statements about which controls are the best- since clearly my opinions would be biased- but I will say that in the "3rd party" component market (in other words, not Microsoft and not open source) the pricing amongst the big players is all about the same. And in general, if you need the rich functionality offered by any of the 3rd party suites, the price is significantly lower than what you'd pay in your own dev time to rebuild the controls from scratch (or even to customize an open source control).
There are some significant differences in the way the licensing is handled, though, and as Josh originally highlighted, Telerik has the most open, "developer friendly" licensing approach. Purchased controls have no license keys to deal with.
Hope that helps.