I looked heavily into the source code for this, and I think the manual may be misleading you a bit - there's no way to do this using the object's constraints. The following quote from their user forums seems to back up my findings:
DateTextBox doesn't let you customize
isDisabledDate at this time. It only
lets you set min/max. You would
probably have to patch or subclass
DateTextBox to provide your own
isDisabledDate implementation and
check during validation.
You can see an example of such a subclass of DateTextBox at http://dojotoolkit.org/forum/dijit-dijit-0-9/dijit-support/datetextbox-mondays-only-selectable#comment-19508.
If that's too much work for you, DateTextBox DOES descend from dijit.form.ValidationTextBox, so we can use this widget's regExpGen to create a validator - it won't prevent us from selecting invalid dates, but it will cause dijit to mark the widget as invalid and give the user a 'The value entered is not valid'.
dijit.byId('toDate').regExpGen = function() {
if (dojo.date.locale.format(this.value, {datePattern: "E", selector: "date"}) == 6)
return ".*";
return "0";
}