Edit: removed the part that is not relevant
maybe you could use the JNI (java native interface) to call a C-function which gets this flag... with C, this should be possible (though possible that the code would become unportable)
Edit: For linux, i found the following. Downloaded the source-code of wireless-tools, including iwconfig. They included library, iwlib.c, simply extracts the names of the interface from /proc/net/wireless or /proc/net/dev
You can get the sources from here, this is from Fedora. As the library extracts its data from a path of a standardized file-system, the only thing you need to have is kernel-support for procfs.
Now i can only lead you to the file "iwlib.c", function
void iw_enum_devices(int skfd, iw_enum_handler fn, char * args[], int count)
i don't know about those parameters, but the source code is commented. Maybe you will have to compare the list you get from java with the one you receive through this JNI-hack...
Guess it's a lot of work for a "little task"; hope you find your way through...
regards