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Are you joining the multicast group first? You have to explicitly tell the OS the group that you want to join before it will deliver you a group's messages. There's a command you can access with setsockopt() to join a multicast group. From the Darwin ip6 manpage:

IPV6_JOIN_GROUP struct ipv6_mreq *
    Join a multicast group.  A host must become a member of a multicast group before it can receive
    datagrams sent to the group.

    struct ipv6_mreq {
            struct in6_addr ipv6mr_multiaddr;
            unsigned int    ipv6mr_interface;
    };

    ipv6mr_interface may be set to zeroes to choose the default multicast interface or to the index
    of a particular multicast-capable interface if the host is multihomed.  Membership is associ-
    ated with a single interface; programs running on multihomed hosts may need to join the same
    group on more than one interface.

    If the multicast address is unspecified (i.e., all zeroes), messages from all multicast
    addresses will be accepted by this group.  Note that setting to this value requires superuser
    privileges.

I found some example code here:

struct ipv6_mreq mreq6;
memcpy(&mreq6.ipv6mr_multiaddr, &(((struct sockaddr_in6 *)addr)->sin6_addr),
       sizeof(struct in6_addr));
mreq6.ipv6mr_interface= 0;

err = setsockopt(sockfd, IPPROTO_IPV6, IPV6_JOIN_GROUP, &mreq6, sizeof(mreq6));
if (err) fprintf(stderr, "setsockopt IPV6_JOIN_GROUP: %s\n", strerror (errno));

But maybe you're doing this already?

cce
Alas, I am... it's the same code in all cases, just substituting in a different multicast IP address.
Jeremy Friesner