I agree with Michael McLosky, to a degree.
The question in my mind is: What is the technical cost of having multiple notes tables?
In my mind, it Is preferable to consolidate the same functionality into a single table. It aso makes reporting and other further development simpler. Not to mention keeping the list of tables smaller and easier to manage.
It's a balancing act, you need to try to predetermine both the benefits And the costs of doing something like this. My -personal- preference is database referential integrity. Application management of integrity should, in my opinion, be limitted ot business logic. The database should ensure the data is always consistent and valid...
To actually answer your question...
The option I would use is a check constraint using a User Defined Function to check the values. This works in M$ SQL Server...
CREATE TABLE Test_Table_1 (id INT IDENTITY(1,1), val INT)
GO
CREATE TABLE Test_Table_2 (id INT IDENTITY(1,1), val INT)
GO
CREATE TABLE Test_Table_3 (fk_id INT, table_name VARCHAR(64))
GO
CREATE FUNCTION id_exists (@id INT, @table_name VARCHAR(64))
RETURNS INT
AS
BEGIN
IF (@table_name = 'Test_Table_1')
IF EXISTS(SELECT * FROM Test_Table_1 WHERE id = @id)
RETURN 1
ELSE
IF (@table_name = 'Test_Table_2')
IF EXISTS(SELECT * FROM Test_Table_2 WHERE id = @id)
RETURN 1
RETURN 0
END
GO
ALTER TABLE Test_Table_3 WITH CHECK ADD CONSTRAINT
CK_Test_Table_3 CHECK ((dbo.id_exists(fk_id,table_name)=(1)))
GO
ALTER TABLE [dbo].[Test_Table_3] CHECK CONSTRAINT [CK_Test_Table_3]
GO
INSERT INTO Test_Table_1 SELECT 1
GO
INSERT INTO Test_Table_1 SELECT 2
GO
INSERT INTO Test_Table_1 SELECT 3
GO
INSERT INTO Test_Table_2 SELECT 1
GO
INSERT INTO Test_Table_2 SELECT 2
GO
INSERT INTO Test_Table_3 SELECT 3, 'Test_Table_1'
GO
INSERT INTO Test_Table_3 SELECT 3, 'Test_Table_2'
GO
In that example, the final insert statement would fail.