Manytimes clients ask for features like instant messaging (IM) and other client-to-client (P2P) communication for their web apps. Typically how is this done in normal web browsers? For example I've seen demos of Google Wave (and Gmail) that are able to IM from a regular browser. Is this via HTTP? Or does XmlHttpRequest (AJAX) provide the necessary backend for such communication?
More than anything I wonder how can a server "wake up" the remote client, lets say for sending an IM? Or does the client have to keep "polling" the message server for new IMs?