You can use the dig/host command to look up the MX records to see which mail server is handling mails for this domain.
On Linux you can do it as following for example:
$ host google.com
google.com has address 74.125.127.100
google.com has address 74.125.67.100
google.com has address 74.125.45.100
google.com mail is handled by 10 google.com.s9a2.psmtp.com.
google.com mail is handled by 10 smtp2.google.com.
google.com mail is handled by 10 google.com.s9a1.psmtp.com.
google.com mail is handled by 100 google.com.s9b2.psmtp.com.
google.com mail is handled by 10 smtp1.google.com.
google.com mail is handled by 100 google.com.s9b1.psmtp.com.
(as you can see, google has quite a lot of mail servers)
If you are working with windows, you might use nslookup (?) or try some web tool (e.g. that one) to display the same information.
Although that will only tell you the mail server for that domain. All other settings which are required can't be gathered that way. You might have to ask the provider.