I have written the below unit to parse command line arguments in a more robust way.  Feel free to use it.  I've included an example usage after the unit (scroll to the bottom).
unit CLArgParser;
//this class makes it easier to parse command line arguments
interface
uses
  Classes;
type
  strarr = array of string;
type
  TCLArgParser = class
  private
    FPermitTags : array of string;
    FTrimAll: boolean;
  public
    function IsArg(argtag : string) : boolean;
    function GetArg(argtag : string) : string;
    function GetDelimtedArg(argtag, delimiter : string) : TStringList;
    constructor Create(ArgTags : array of string); overload;
    constructor Create; overload;
    property TrimAll: boolean read FTrimAll write FTrimAll;
  end;
implementation
uses
  SysUtils;
const
  cDefaultTags : array[0..1] of string =  ('-','/');
constructor TCLArgParser.Create(ArgTags : array of string);
var i : integer;
begin
  try
    SetLength(FPermitTags,High(ArgTags)+1);
    for i := 0 to High(ArgTags) do begin
      FPermitTags[i] := ArgTags[i];
    end;  //for i
  except on e : exception do
    raise;
  end;  //try-except
end;
constructor TCLArgParser.Create;
begin
  FTrimAll := False;  //default value
  inherited Create;
  Create(cDefaultTags);
end;
function TCLArgParser.GetArg(argtag: string): string;
var i,j,n : integer;
begin
  try
    Result := '';
    n := High(FPermitTags);
    for i := 1 to ParamCount do
      for j := 0 to n do
        if Uppercase(ParamStr(i)) = (FPermitTags[j] + Uppercase(argtag)) then
          Result := ParamStr(i+1);
    if FTrimAll then begin
      Result := Trim(Result);
    end;
  except on e : exception do
    raise;
  end;  //try-except
end;
function TCLArgParser.GetDelimtedArg(argtag, delimiter: string): TStringList;
var i : integer;
    argval, tmp : string;
begin
  try
    Result := TStringList.Create;
    argval := GetArg(argtag);
    for i := 1 to Length(argval) do begin
      if ((i = Length(argval)) or ((argval[i] = delimiter) and (tmp <> '')))
      then begin
        if i = Length(argval) then begin
          tmp := tmp + argval[i];
          if FTrimAll then begin
            tmp := Trim(tmp);
          end;
        end;
        Result.Add(tmp);
        tmp := '';
      end  //if we found a delimted value
      else begin
        tmp := tmp + argval[i];
      end;  //else we just keep looking
    end;  //for ea. character
  except on e : exception do
    raise;
  end;  //try-except
end;
function TCLArgParser.IsArg(argtag: string): boolean;
var i,j,n : integer;
begin
  try
    Result := False;
    n := High(FPermitTags);
    for i := 1 to ParamCount do begin
      for j := 0 to n do begin
        if Uppercase(ParamStr(i)) = (FPermitTags[j] + Uppercase(argtag))
        then begin
          Result := True;
          Exit;
        end;  //if we found it
      end;  //for j
    end;  //for i
  except on e : exception do
    raise;
  end;  //try-except
end;
end.
Example usage:
procedure DefineParameters;
var
  clarg: TCLArgParser;
begin
  //assign command line arguments to various global variables
  clarg := TCLArgParser.Create;
  try
    wantshelp := clarg.IsArg('?') or clArg.IsArg('help');
    dbuser := clarg.GetArg('u');
    dbpwd := clarg.GetArg('p');
    dbserver := clarg.GetArg('d');
    localfilename := clarg.GetArg('localfile');
    ftpuser := clarg.GetArg('ftu');
    ftppwd := clarg.GetArg('ftp');
    ftpipaddr := clarg.GetArg('fti');
    emailfromacct := clarg.GetArg('efrom');
    emailtoacct := clarg.GetArg('eto');
    archivefolder := clarg.GetArg('archive');
    if archivefolder <> '' then begin
      if archivefolder[Length(archivefolder)] <> '\' then begin
        archivefolder := archivefolder + '\';
      end;
    end;
    //figure out the (optional) verbosity code.
    //if they didn't specify, assume the default value
    verbosity := c_VerbosityDefault;
    if clArg.IsArg('v') then begin
      if not(TryStrToInt(clarg.GetArg('v'),verbosity)) then begin
        WriteLn('Invalid verbosity code- using default of ' +
          IntToStr(c_VerbosityDefault) + '.');
      end;  //if their specified verbosity was invalid
    end;  //if they specified the verbosity
    if not(TryStrToInt(clarg.GetArg('maxtime'),maxtime)) then begin
      maxtime := 9999999;
    end;
  finally
    FreeAndNil(clarg);
  end;  //try-finally
end;