You don't want to bring the focus back to the other view as soon as someone clicks the tree: It would make your app unusable. e.g. It would prevent users from navigating through the tree using the keyboard since the tree would never keep the focus long enough.
I you really want the toolbar to keep reflecting the state of your 2nd view (I'm not sure it's a good idea), you have a few options. Make your pick. 2 come to mind:
Your tree view should NOT be a CView. Use a simple CTreeCtrl. Not very nice because it kind of break the doc/view paradigm (e.g. no more tree's OnUpdate() called whenever an UpdateAllViews() is called).
Prevent the tree from becoming the active view. To do so:
2.a. When you view gets the focus (OnFocus()):
STATIC_DOWNCAST(CFrameWnd, AfxMainWnd())->SetActiveView(pTheOtherView);
2.b. Derive a CMySplitterWnd class from CSplitterWnd, then override CMySplitterWnd::SetActivePane() to prevent it from setting the treeview as the active view.
In all cases, welcome to the wonderful world of MFC internals where diving into the source code is the mandatory daily sport ;-)
Edit: added missing NOT