I expect that each of your simulations has some input values which differ, for instance, x
is 1 for the first, 2
for the second, and then you have some function f(x) which runs the simulation and generates 5 points for each simulation. From your example, I expect x is actually three values, A, B, C.
In that case, what you want to discover is the value of x which generates the best simulation.
In this case, you really need to find the correlation between f(x) to the experimental result, rather than the simulated result itself.
The reason for this is that finding a good correlation between the simulations and the experimental result has too many variables (if you assume the simulations are independent of each other), and will probably find a fit just by chance.
I think you should also obtain additional experimental values, to increase your confidence.
My favourite language for such things is R, which is free and available for most platforms at a download site near you, and I recommend the book "Introduction to Statistics using R", which gives lots of potted examples for you to try, and runs you through beginning statistics to some quite advanced things.