I hear a lot about performance problems about lazy loading, no matter if at NHibernate, Linq.... The problem is N+1 selects. Example, I want all posts and its users, at foreach I lazy Load Users, them I need one select for posts, plus N select for each user.
Lazy Loading:
1 - select ....from post N - select ....from user
The "good" approach is do a join:
1 - select .....from post inner join user on post.UserId = user.Id
But seeing EF generated SQL, I realized that a lot of data is wasted. Imagine that all posts are the same User. Inner Join will bring all users collums for each post row.
In performance, which approach is best?