This related stackoverflow question has some nice answers: What are good starting points for someone interested in natural language processing?
This is a very big field. The prerequisites mostly consist of probability/statistics, linear algebra, and basic computer science, although Natural Language Processing requires a more intensive computer science background to start with (frequently covering some basic AI). Regarding specific langauges: Lisp was created "as an afterthought" for doing AI research, while Prolog (with it's roots in formal logic) is especially aimed at Natural Language Processing, and many courses will use Prolog, Scheme, Matlab, R, or another functional language (e.g. OCaml is used for this course at Cornell) as they are very suited to this kind of analysis.
Here are some more specific pointers:
For Machine Learning, Stanford CS 229: Machine Learning is great: it includes everything, including full videos of the lectures (also up on iTunes), course notes, problem sets, etc., and it was very well taught by Andrew Ng.
Note the prerequisites:
Students are expected to have the following background: Knowledge of
basic computer science principles and skills, at a level sufficient to write
a reasonably non-trivial computer program. Familiarity with the basic probability theory.
Familiarity with the basic linear algebra.
The course uses Matlab and/or Octave. It also recommends the following readings (although the course notes themselves are very complete):
- Christopher Bishop, Pattern Recognition and Machine Learning. Springer, 2006.
- Richard Duda, Peter Hart and David Stork, Pattern Classification, 2nd ed. John Wiley & Sons, 2001.
- Tom Mitchell, Machine Learning. McGraw-Hill, 1997.
- Richard Sutton and Andrew Barto, Reinforcement Learning: An introduction. MIT Press, 1998
For Natural Language Processing, the NLP group at Stanford provides many good resources. The introductory course Stanford CS 224: Natural Language Processing includes all the lectures online and has the following prerequisites:
Adequate experience with programming
and formal structures. Programming
projects will be written in Java 1.5,
so knowledge of Java (or a willingness
to learn on your own) is required.
Knowledge of standard concepts in
artificial intelligence and/or
computational linguistics. Basic
familiarity with logic, vector spaces,
and probability.
Some recommended texts are:
The prerequisite computational linguistics course requires basic computer programming and data structures knowledge, and uses the same text books. The required articificial intelligence course is also available online along with all the lecture notes and uses:
This is the standard Artificial Intelligence text and is also worth reading.
I use R for machine learning myself and really recommend it. For this, I would suggest looking at The Elements of Statistical Learning, for which the full text is available online for free. You may want to refer to the Machine Learning and Natural Language Processing views on CRAN for specific functionality.