Volatile will solve your problem, ie. it will guarantee consistency among all the caches of the system. However it will be inefficiency since it will update the variable in memory for each R or W access. You might concider using a memory barrier, only whenever it is needed, instead.
If you are working with or gcc/icc have look on sync built-ins : http://gcc.gnu.org/onlinedocs/gcc-4.1.2/gcc/Atomic-Builtins.html
EDIT (mostly about pm100 comment):
I understand that my beliefs are not a reference so I found something to quote :)
The volatile keyword was devised to prevent compiler optimizations that might render code incorrect in the presence of certain asynchronous events. For example, if you declare a primitive variable as volatile, the compiler is not permitted to cache it in a register
From Dr Dobb's
More interesting :
Volatile fields are linearizable. Reading a volatile field is like acquiring a lock; the working memory is invalidated and the volatile field's current value is reread from memory. Writing a volatile field is like releasing a lock : the volatile field is immediately written back to memory.
(this is all about consistency, not about atomicity)
from The Art of multiprocessor programming, Maurice Herlihy & Nir Shavit
Lock contains memory synchronization code, if you don't lock, you must do something and using volatile keyword is probably the simplest thing you can do (even if it was designed for external devices with memory binded to the address space, it's not the point here)