I'm designing a game where players are programmed bots competing in a programming contest. The bots can be programmed in any language - Java, Ruby, Python, C#. I'm looking for some way to transmit game data across the network or some way by which the game server can talk to the bots. What would be a better choice for this? Should i use XMPP or some other form of remote method invocation?
A REST based webservice might be easier to use if you need lots of languages to be able to call it.
The issue with many Remoting infrastructures are that they are normally not portable between frameworks. While XMPP might work for you - the main issue you might find is excessive data crossing the network due to all the header/presence stuff in the data being sent around. Also as XMPP is XML based any binary data would have to be sent around as a Base64 string.
A better bet might be a more low level socket interface - either way having the freedom to do bit-packing to reduce the size of the data will possibly be beneficial.
I always find reinventing the wheel to be tedious. Try and see if you can use OpenTNL.
What you are descibing is not an RMI problem but a messaging one. I am sure there are several solutions you could use, and based on the limited knowledge of your application, I would say that XMPP is one of them. It is language agnostic and has libraries (and servers) available in most well supported languages.
Whether it is the best solution, I couldn't say, but I would think it is a viable one. It gives you the option for transmitting from point to point, point to many points, and a means for your game server to broadcast to all clients.