A XIB is a container for objects, it's not equal to a window. You can't center a XIB, you can only center a window contained in a XIB.
Also, the objects in the XIB are created when you load it. You don't pass an object as owner that then stands in for one of the objects in the XIB, you instead use IBOutlets to get references to the new objects created when loading the XIB and then you can interact with them.
The File's Owner object is a special object in XIBs, as it's the only object that is not created and that you can specify by passing it to loadNibNamed:owner:
. It's your gateway between the XIB-created objects and your application.
Usually, the owner object is some kind of controller class. Set the File's Owner's class in Interface Builder to your controller class, then define some IBOutlets in the class, they will show up in Interface Builder on the File's Owner and you can connect your objects in the XIB to them.
Finally, when you pass your controller object to loadNibNamed:owner:
, Cocoa will connect your IBOutlets to the newly created objects and you can use them to interact with them, e.g. to center a window in your XIB.