Remember that in all normal cases, you don't actually see specific addresses.
When you allocate memory, the OS supplies you with the address of that chunk of memory.
When you take the reference of a variable, the the variable has already been allocated at an address determined by the system.
So accessing address zero is not really a problem, because when you follow a pointer, you don't care what address it points to, only that it is valid:
int* i = new int(); // suppose this returns a pointer to address zero
*i = 42; // now we're accessing address zero, writing the value 42 to it
So if you need to access address zero, it'll generally work just fine.
The 0 == null thing only really becomes an issue if for some reason you're accessing physical memory directly. Perhaps you're writing an OS kernel or something like that yourself. In that case, you're going to be writing to specific memory addresses (especially those mapped to hardware registers), and so you might conceivably need to write to address zero. But then you're really bypassing C++ and relying on the specifics of your compiler and hardware platform.
Of course, if you need to write to address zero, that is possible. Only the constant 0
represents a null pointer. The non-constant integer value zero will not, if assigned to a pointer, yield a null pointer.
So you could simply do something like this:
int i = 0;
int* zeroaddr = (int*)i;
now zeroaddr will point to address zero(*), but it will not, strictly speaking, be a null pointer, because the zero value was not constant.
(*): that's not entirely true. The C++ standard only guarantees an "implementation-defined mapping" between integers and addresses. It could convert the 0 to address 0x1633de20` or any other address it likes. But the mapping is usually the intuitive and obvious one, where the integer 0 is mapped to the address zero)