When a process terminates the OS will reclaim all allocated memory and will close all open handles. You don't need to worry about MEMORY*) that leaks in the very special event of shutting down the application. The OS will also close all your open handles**), at least theoretically. All those taken into account, it might be safe for you to simply terminate your thread (using TerminateThread(MyThread.Handle)) from your forms destructor, before killing other shared resources. Ask yourself those questions:
- What's the thread doing? Is it safe to terminate it at any time? Example: If the thread is doing any writing to disk, it's unsafe to just kill it, because you might live files on disk in an inconsistant state.
- Are you using any resources that aren't automatically freed by Windows? Can't think of an good example here...
If you're on the safe side with both, you can use TerminateThread and not wait for the thread to naturally terminate. A safer approach might a combined approach, maybe you should give the thread a chance to naturally terminate and, if it didn't terminate withing 5 seconds, force-terminate it.
*) I'm talking about memory you can prove only leaks on process termination, like threads you kill without giving them a chance to properly shut down, or global singleton classes you don't free. All other unaccounted memory needs to be tracked down and fixed, because it's an bug.
**) Unfortunately the Windows OS is not bug-free. Example: Anyone that worked with serial devices on the Windows platform knows how easy it is to get the serial-device in a "locked" state, requiring an restart to get it working again. Technically that's also an Handle, end-processing the application that locked it should unlock it.