Make Windows refresh icon cache

Question

I really liked the oxygen appearance of KDE SC 4. I wrote a program to apply these icons to windows. The program is written in NSIS, and is currently nearly fully functional. However, the only way I found to make Windows aware of the icon changes is to kill explorer.exe, delete the icon cache, and respawn explorer.exe. SHChangeNotify with SHCNE_ASSOCCHANGED seems to be unable to make Windows aware of the changes to the Control Panel icon, the My Computer icon, etc. Please suggest a better, less brutal approach to make Windows aware of these changes.

EDIT:I found a program called Icon Tweaker that appears to be able to do this, but it is closed source and so I have no idea how it does this. (IconTweaker: http://www.crystalxp.net/galerie/en.id.83-icontweaker.html)

EDIT: I have this working fine, thanks to Anders' reply (see below). However, I'll just put my working NSIS code here,in case someone else needs it

ReadRegStr $0 HKCU "Control Panel\Desktop\WindowMetrics" "Shell Icon Size"
IntOp $0 $0 + 1
WriteRegStr HKCU "Control Panel\Desktop\WindowMetrics" "Shell Icon Size" $0
SendMessage 0xffff 0x001A 42 0 /TIMEOUT=100000
IntOp $0 $0 - 1
WriteRegStr HKCU "Control Panel\Desktop\WindowMetrics" "Shell Icon Size" $0
SendMessage 0xffff 0x001A 42 0 /TIMEOUT=100000

The $0 register is used to store the "Shell Icon Size" value of "HKEY_CURRENT_USER\Control Panel\Desktop\WindowMetrics". We then increment the value and do a SendMessageTimeout(HWND_BROADCAST, WM_SETTINGCHANGE, SPI_SETNONCLIENTMETRICS, 0, SMTO_ABORTIFHUNG, 100000, NULL), followed by a decrement and re-send.

Answer 1

SystemParametersInfo() has a parameter called SPI_SETICONS that "Reloads the system icons" according to MSDN. I have never tried to use SPI_SETICONS so I don't know if it works, if you wanted to test you would use something like

System::Call 'user32::SystemParametersInfo(i 0x0058,i0,i0,i2)i' ;SPI_SETICONS

If it turns out that this is not enough, you can bring out the big undocumented hammer:

1. Read REG_SZ value named "Shell Icon Size" in HKEY_CURRENT_USER\Control Panel\Desktop\WindowMetrics (If the value is not there, either abort or use GetSystemMetrics(SM_CXICON))
2. Subtract 1 from the number you got from step one
3. Write the modified entry back to the registry
4. Call SendMessageTimeout(HWND_BROADCAST, WM_SETTINGCHANGE, SPI_SETNONCLIENTMETRICS, 0, SMTO_ABORTIFHUNG, 100000, NULL)
5. Write the number you got from step one entry back to the registry
6. Call SendMessageTimeout(HWND_BROADCAST, WM_SETTINGCHANGE, SPI_SETNONCLIENTMETRICS, 0, SMTO_ABORTIFHUNG, 100000, NULL)

Note that this could re-arrange the desktop icons even if "Auto Arrange" is off and possibly other things that might annoy the user!