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Unfortunately there is no standard schema for Attribute Exchange (AX). But the axschema.org seems to be the closest thing to it. To know which one to use, the best way I know of is to look for a "hint" about which schema(s) are supported in the OP's XRDS document. DotNetOpenAuth does this, for example, and has a good success rate. When the XRDS doesn't contain any of the AX schema URIs, you can send all three (yes, there are three) AX attribute URI formats to best ensure a useful response.

Andrew Arnott
What would those "hints" in XRDS look like?
Mewp
A TypeURI in the XRDS that contains any of the AX attributes the OP supports.
Andrew Arnott