I'm not sure you can do this (I don't think I have ever seen it implemented) but if it were to work I think you do this by returning UITableViewCellEditingStyleNone as the cell's editing style in
- (UITableViewCellEditingStyle)tableView:(UITableView *)tableView editingStyleForRowAtIndexPath:(NSIndexPath *)indexPath
As long as you have
- (void)tableView:(UTableView *)tableView moveRowAtIndexPath:(NSIndexPath *)fromIndexPath toindexPath:(NSIndexPath *)toIndexPath
and
-(BOOL)tableview:(UITableView *)tableview canMoveRowAtIndexPath:(NSIndexPath *)indexPath
defined in the UITableViewDelegate the reordering controls should display when you enter edit mode.
To start in editing style call
- (void)setEditing:(BOOL)editing animated:(BOOL)animated
after your view gets loaded