I tried to create a simple example that shows foreign key constraint being enforced. With this example I prove am not allowed to enter data that violates the fk and I prove that if the fk is not in place during insert and I enable the fk that the fk constraint throws and error telling me data violates the fk. So I'm not seeing how you have data in table that violates a fk that is in place. I'm on 9.0, but this should not be different on 8.3. If you could show and working example that proves your issue that might help.
--CREATE TABLES--
CREATE TABLE parent
(
parent_id integer NOT NULL,
first_name character varying(50) NOT NULL,
CONSTRAINT pk_parent PRIMARY KEY (parent_id)
)
WITH (
OIDS=FALSE
);
ALTER TABLE parent OWNER TO postgres;
CREATE TABLE child
(
child_id integer NOT NULL,
parent_id integer NOT NULL,
first_name character varying(50) NOT NULL,
CONSTRAINT pk_child PRIMARY KEY (child_id),
CONSTRAINT fk1_child FOREIGN KEY (parent_id)
REFERENCES parent (parent_id) MATCH SIMPLE
ON UPDATE CASCADE ON DELETE CASCADE
)
WITH (
OIDS=FALSE
);
ALTER TABLE child OWNER TO postgres;
--CREATE TABLES--
--INSERT TEST DATA--
INSERT INTO parent(parent_id,first_name)
SELECT 1,'Daddy'
UNION
SELECT 2,'Mommy';
INSERT INTO child(child_id,parent_id,first_name)
SELECT 1,1,'Billy'
UNION
SELECT 2,1,'Jenny'
UNION
SELECT 3,1,'Kimmy'
UNION
SELECT 4,2,'Billy'
UNION
SELECT 5,2,'Jenny'
UNION
SELECT 6,2,'Kimmy';
--INSERT TEST DATA--
--SHOW THE DATA WE HAVE--
select parent.first_name,
child.first_name
from parent
inner join child
on child.parent_id = parent.parent_id
order by parent.first_name, child.first_name asc;
--SHOW THE DATA WE HAVE--
--DELETE PARENT WHO HAS CHILDREN--
BEGIN TRANSACTION;
delete from parent
where parent_id = 1;
--Check to see if any children that were linked to Daddy are still there?
--None there so the cascade delete worked.
select parent.first_name,
child.first_name
from parent
right outer join child
on child.parent_id = parent.parent_id
order by parent.first_name, child.first_name asc;
ROLLBACK TRANSACTION;
--TRY ALLOW NO REFERENTIAL DATA IN--
BEGIN TRANSACTION;
--Get rid of fk constraint so we can insert red headed step child
ALTER TABLE child DROP CONSTRAINT fk1_child;
INSERT INTO child(child_id,parent_id,first_name)
SELECT 7,99999,'Red Headed Step Child';
select parent.first_name,
child.first_name
from parent
right outer join child
on child.parent_id = parent.parent_id
order by parent.first_name, child.first_name asc;
--Will throw FK check violation because parent 99999 doesn't exist in parent table
ALTER TABLE child
ADD CONSTRAINT fk1_child FOREIGN KEY (parent_id)
REFERENCES parent (parent_id) MATCH SIMPLE
ON UPDATE CASCADE ON DELETE CASCADE;
ROLLBACK TRANSACTION;
--TRY ALLOW NO REFERENTIAL DATA IN--
--DROP TABLE parent;
--DROP TABLE child;