You can't really pass custom parameters to the script. However the following things are possible and could solve your problem:
- optional features can be enabled using
--with-featurename, standard features can be disabled using --without-featurename. [AFAIR this requires setuptools]
- you can use environment variables, these however require to be
set on windows whereas prefixing them works on linux/ OS X (FOO=bar python setup.py).
- you can extend distutils with your own
cmd_classes which can implement new features. They are also chainable, so you can use that to change variables in your script. (python setup.py foo install) will execute the foo command before it executes install.
Hope that helps somehow. Generally speaking I would suggest providing a bit more information what exactly your extra parameter should do, maybe there is a better solution available.