Ok here comes a rather philosophical, but nevertheless correct, idea:
A strange phenonemon is that
regardless the skills people have or
don't have, the skills they think
they have are more or less constant.
This is because the skills you have are the only skills you can use to judge the skills you have....
This lead to the phenonemon that your pupil, and many others, suffer from: "unskilled and unaware of it"
See this very interesting text: Unskilled and unaware of it: How difficulties in recognizing one's own incompetence lead to inflated self-assessments.
Now, ask yourself, why you think you are skilled and your pupil is not? You know you shouldn't copy paste from the internet. But if you really know why, why is that? If you can phrase it for yourself, why not for her?
What I mean is, if you know something is bad, you should know it that well that you can explain it to others. If you want to tutor, make a habit of questioning your own certitudes. Explain them to yourself as if you had to persuade yourself.
And importantly, try to find examples.
Examples are the alpha and the omega of teaching. That's how people tend to get something: by seeing an example of it.
If a design is bad, show her where it goes wrong with an example. If you cant find an example, produce one yourself. If you can't produce an example, ask yourself why that is.
I think if you can find counter-examples for every false certitude a beginner has, you will not find it that difficult to persuade them.