This can be broken down into a simple trio of equations:
a + b = 3
b + c = 5
a + c = 4
How can I best approximate the values? Note, I'll have many more such totals and variables in real applications. Particularly, I want to find if its possible to usefully approximate the cost of food by item lists and totals from grocery receipts. I assume if I can figure out costs, there will be varying ranges of accuracy I can expect, so an extra would be knowing how likely the approximation is to be correct and within what range the price must be.
EDIT: I just don't see this getting an answer I'm comfortable with, because I failed to properly frame the question in the first place.