After re-reading your question, it sounds like you're looking to change the display of the date object in the datagrid itself? For that, you should look at using a labelFunction for the DataGridColumn that is displaying the Date instance.
<mx:DataGridColumn labelFunction="dateFormatLabelFunction" />
private function dateFormatLabelFunction( item:Object, column:DataGridColumn ):String
{
return item.date.day + "/" ; //...
}
Or, alternatively, use the DateFormatter to format the date in the label function:
<mx:DateFormatter id="dateFormatter" format="MM/DD/YYYY" />
private function dateFormatLabelFunction( item:Object, column:DataGridColumn ):String
{
return dateFormatter.format( item.date );
}
EDIT: Per comments, the combined approach code sample would look something like this:
<mx:Script>
<![CDATA[
private function dateFormatLabelFunction( item:Object, column:DataGridColumn ):String
{
return dateFormatter.format( item[ column.dataField ] );
}
]]>
</mx:Script>
<mx:DateFormatter id="dateFormatter" format="MM/DD/YYYY" />
<mx:DataGrid ...>
<mx:columns>
<mx:DataGridColumn dataField="myDateField" labelFunction="dateFormatLabelFunction" />
</mx:columns>
</mx:DataGrid>