I am currently using select loop to manage sockets in a proxy. One of the requirements of this proxy is that if the proxy sends a message to the outside server and does not get a response in a certain time, the proxy should close that socket and try to connect to a secondary server. The closing happens in a separate thread, while the select thread blocks waiting for activity.
I am having trouble figuring out how to detect that this socket closed specifically, so that I can handle the failure. If I call close() in the other thread, I get an EBADF, but I can't tell which socket closed. I tried to detect the socket through the exception fdset, thinking it would contain the closed socket, but I'm not getting anything returned there. I have also heard calling shutdown() will send a FIN to the server and receive a FIN back, so that I can close it; but the whole point is me trying to close this as a result of not getting a response within the timeout period, so I cant do that, either.
If my assumptions here are wrong, let me know. Any ideas would be appreciated.
EDIT: In response to the suggestions about using select time out: I need to do the closing asynchronously, because the client connecting to the proxy will time out and I can't wait around for the select to be polled. This would only work if I made the select time out very small, which would then constantly be polling and wasting resources which I don't want.