It partly depends on your style of working, as all the options have strengths and weaknesses.
If you need refactoring across mixed java/scala projects, then IntelliJ is your only option.
IntelliJ is also the most stable option for Scala 2.7 code.
If you want to do any work on the compiler or a compiler plugin, then Eclipse has the advantage of being able to launch a runtime workspace with a custom compiler build, including breakpoints.
Netbeans is a fine choice to go with if you're already very familiar with that platform, the costs of learning a new environment may well outweigh any benefits, and all three solutions are improving rapidly.